Relations

When relations blossom the reasons are various.

It is like a mutual handshake. When One waves a hi, and the other does not even notice it, it can mean two things-

Either the person is lost in thoughts, or stressed up . The reasons could also be -

A) The other person is not important anymore,

B) There is a more important person than this person, present in this persons life who can shadow you,

C) One is being taken for granted by the person who has not waved or noticed .

However , sometimes hi's andsmiles too are not real when  a relationship has begun or even started developing Atleast one party thinks it is developing. But, that may not be the case too for the person it may be series of occurrences; just that . and our friend might find it how shall I say ? Oh yes that things then are rosy.

How to test a relation ?

Just stop picking phones answering messages, mails, or looking towards or even responding or reactingin the presence of the person you are taking a test of.  And,most important, whenever you see this personinstead of avoiding go with a blank expression less face; As if, you have never seen this person before.

Then you will see the results and what happens.....

True loved one - would worry for you be anxious towards your well being,

Intentionally related - would start thinking negative even begin to dislike and further hate you

Mutual love - will feel sad and feel low.

I have observed that many a times there are some people who interact with us, without any purpose . 

They have good feelings for you and vice-versa.  But we never find them interacting financially, at socials with you or even enjoying small tea parties at each others residences . Harmless souls are they not ? :)

                               .....N B