Was there a word limit ???

Question: what does an orator do ? and What does a Reformer do ?

An Orator has an impressive way of presenting his views which may be right or ???? you decide .At the end of a lecture don't see what is the style  but what thoughts are conveyed ...Do not get carried away with stylish orators unless there is material enough which enriches you ...that is, with knowledge....or at least provokes you to think....! Mostly we change our views at some point of time about certain issues just because someone says so ...We must think ...why was I on this path before, what were the reasons ???
You will find them ..what you need is to be able to convince your self that the reasons were right...Then .....Then...learn to express yourself in simple sentences ... and when the issue is raised again...You will find you have reasons to give when...
someone says why is it you were doing this at ...so and so point of time in your life If you knew you were right ...firmly...you will find words...reasons.. and you will be impressive too !!!
Now what does a reformer do ???
He knows he wants changes,...firstly he is a changed , different person too ...from what he must have been before too...One day he reads something or comes across an incidence or reacts to a speech or situation and and and....there :) !!!
THE PROCESS BEGINS....!!!!
He thinks let me reform my self enough...One day he notices people saying oh how can you do this ? and/or you are so good at that...Also he gets compliments , finds people telling him others talk about his positive changes and things he does or talks about and some people find themselves safe with him with his advise etc....Slowly he knows he is on the right path...Speech and style hand in hand plus Good thinking...intentionally given speeches which seem like mere...informative lectures and then Slowly a person...a group....may be families...bunch of people here and folks here and there listen nod and say ...yes isn't he right ...?
But I never realised this can be a change , a perspective...a way to choose...                                                    etc...
Finally , is the answer correct My question and My answer Too.... now the marks...
You say how do you rate this answer ? and and and....again Was there a word limit for this answer ? :)

GREAT JOB SANTU BRAHMA !!!!

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Nandini Borkar .....N B

ARE WE ?????

ARE WE GOING TO PUT LOUD SPEAKERS IN PANDALS,  NEAR HOSPITALS ,,ATOM, BOMBS ,ITEM SONGS IN 

PROCESSIONS AND PLAY CARDS IN PANDALS ?????

NO!!!!

ARE WE GOING TO RUN, HERE AND THERE AWAY FROM PARENTS, WHEN WE ARE GOING TO SEE GANAPATI AT

CROWDED PLACES ????

NO!!!!

AND CHILDREN LETS TAKE AN OATH WE ARE NEVER GOING TO ENCOURAGE THE TENDENCIES OF THROWING 

STONES DURING BUNDS, STRIKES AND ANY OTHER EMERGENCIES....OR INTERVENING IN BUS OR TRAIN 

TRANSPORTS WE MAY DESTROY IMPORTANT MONUMENTS DOCUMENTS AND OUR OWN RESOURCES ..... 

PROUD THAT MY KIDS FROM NEW ERA ARE DIFFERENT...WILL NEVER DO SUCH A DEED LOVE YOU ALL 

                                                                                                                                       .....         N B

One fine day

ONE FINE DAY

I got my answers ...... 

I had shown faith in you.....

Pardon me .....My mistake.....

we strive all our lives to be with people.....

whom we want to trust us and !!!

And when we meet one such individual....

We ignore,discard, and avoid them...

Next step ie we force that person .....

To loose faith by our actions.....

And LO and BEHOLD One day.....

The same person is found.....

Saying this to a non- deserving individual.....

Things like believe me.....

Trust me, have faith in my deeds and words.....

But, a person with virtue is a mobile certificate.....

Who has never asked anyone to believe in him.....

Why since he has won the hearts of those around him.....

By never taking one step towards the wrong.....

So others speak for him.....

Isn't that an achievement too ?

But, dear friends I must here tell you ....

Why my mind was full of questions too.....

I do not believe in people changing.....

Personalities and behavioral patterns.....

In a day or say week or two.....

SO when some one.....

who had been bestowing you attentions.....

And admiring you starts cutting your calls....

Or not replying you when you send letters.....

You think which one is real?

The one that was in the past ?

Or the one that is in the present ?

And is there a different picture in the future too?

Then, you wonder all the dears , likes, compliments and.....

Things said before, were they thoughtfully said.....

Jus,t to create a favorable picture....

Or, were they heartfelt then?

Why, then would one believe anyone henceforth ?

What does faith and belief give you ?

Only disregard ? ignorance ? indifference?

Therefore, should one stop reciprocating ?

When he gets positive comments?

And heshe is taking them just in a friendly way?

When infact the other is showing inclination?

This person may just have respected his feelings ?

Thinking he is pretending just trying to impress?

Right now, the answer seems yes !!!

When this happens, multiple times, automatically.....

One is forced to join the group of diplomats.....

And start hiding his true self and.....

Start posing, acting, pretending.....

SO who is responsible for this change ?

One who showed faith or the one who .....

Intentionally was moving around with a robe and veil ?

This is how people change 10 times one may keep faith.....

Eleventh time he gets fed up just fed up.....

And wants to run away from being a simple believer !!!!!

GOT IT ? YOU BETTER GET IT! YOUR LESSON FOLKS!

                                                                                    .....N B

Relations

When relations blossom the reasons are various.

It is like a mutual handshake. When One waves a hi, and the other does not even notice it, it can mean two things-

Either the person is lost in thoughts, or stressed up . The reasons could also be -

A) The other person is not important anymore,

B) There is a more important person than this person, present in this persons life who can shadow you,

C) One is being taken for granted by the person who has not waved or noticed .

However , sometimes hi's andsmiles too are not real when  a relationship has begun or even started developing Atleast one party thinks it is developing. But, that may not be the case too for the person it may be series of occurrences; just that . and our friend might find it how shall I say ? Oh yes that things then are rosy.

How to test a relation ?

Just stop picking phones answering messages, mails, or looking towards or even responding or reactingin the presence of the person you are taking a test of.  And,most important, whenever you see this personinstead of avoiding go with a blank expression less face; As if, you have never seen this person before.

Then you will see the results and what happens.....

True loved one - would worry for you be anxious towards your well being,

Intentionally related - would start thinking negative even begin to dislike and further hate you

Mutual love - will feel sad and feel low.

I have observed that many a times there are some people who interact with us, without any purpose . 

They have good feelings for you and vice-versa.  But we never find them interacting financially, at socials with you or even enjoying small tea parties at each others residences . Harmless souls are they not ? :)

                               .....N B